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How Much Did Jesus Hurt - Luke 19:41

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How Much Did Jesus Hurt?
by George Boose

As He approached Jerusalem and saw the city, He wept over it” (Luke 19:41)

When we say, “That hurt!” just what do we mean? I know it sounds like an obvious question, but think about it. Do we mean that we’re feeling actual physical discomfort or pain; or does it mean that we’re suffering from an emotional upset? – a hurt nevertheless. It is interesting how in English, and I think it’s true in other languages also, that we use the same words for physical pain and for emotional distress. We use: painful, anguish, suffer, misery, distress, ache, hurt, wound. All good words, all descriptive words – but all perfectly interchangeable whether the “hurt” is physical or emotional. I wonder why that is. Probably because it’s just as difficult, sometimes harder, to bear an emotional hurt (a nasty remark, the loss of a loved one, betrayal by a friend) as it is to undergo physical pain.

Probably the anecdote we hear most often to describe this phenomena is the story of an angry father marching his son off to the woodshed. What does the father say? “Son, this is going to hurt me more than you.” We chuckle at that – but it’s true. The loving father, seeing his child crying and hurting, is hurting even more so in his own heart.

When Jesus knew that the time had come for him to face the cross He retreated to the Garden of Gethsemane and prayed, “My Father, if it is not possible for this cup to be taken away unless I drink it, may your will be done” (Matthew 26:42). We know God’s answer. Jesus was not allowed to avoid the cross. During the trial, the flogging, the crucifixion, I’m certain the agony felt in the safety of heaven was as great as the horrible physical torment Jesus experienced here on earth. Did God cry? Consider this – “From the sixth hour until the ninth hour darkness came over all the land” (Matthew 27:45)… the curtain of the temple was torn in twoThe earth shook and the rocks split. The tombs broke open…” (Matthew 27:51-52). I don’t know if God cried. Surely God must have trembled in anguish.

We often face hurts in this life – physical, emotional and sometimes both at once. It’s how we deal with the hurts that matters. There’s an old story of a farmer who owned a donkey. He loved his donkey. but one day the donkey fell into a deep well. When the donkey hit the bottom he was bruised, battered and frightened. He was hurting every way possible. So the donkey immediately began to let out a piteous howl. This went on for hours as the farmer tried to think of some way to rescue his donkey. Reluctantly he decided there was no good solution, so he requested all his neighbors to come over and bring their shovels. The farmer determined the only humane thing to do was to shovel dirt into the well, bury the donkey alive and put him out of his misery. Everyone began to shovel dirt into the well and the donkey cried even louder. But soon he quieted down. After a few minutes the men stopped their shoveling and gazed down the well. They were amazed at what they saw. Every time a shovelful of dirt went down, the donkey would shake it off his back and step on it. As they continued to shovel, the donkey continued to step on the dirt, slowly raising upward. After many more shovelfuls cascaded down, the dirt finally reached up to the level of the top of the well and the donkey just stepped over and out.

I think we can all relate to that story. When we’re hurting – sick – ill-treated – neglected – when it seems like the whole world has just thrown us down a well and is shoveling in the dirt to cover us up – that’s the time to shake it off, step upward, rise above it, and crawl out of that pit. Our ability to do that is going to depend mostly on our attitude.

The importance of having a good, hopeful attitude can’t be over-emphasized. It reminds me of another story about a busy father who had just arrived home after a tough day on the job. He wanted to sit down, take a load off his feet, and forget his troubles by reading the newspaper. But as soon as he was located in his special chair, feet propped up and absorbed in his favorite section of the paper, his little daughter came running in to talk. Little girls love to talk to their fathers. And this father loved his daughter – but he didn’t feel like talking right then. There was no quieting her. Finally, in frustration, the man picked up a magazine that was lying nearby and removed a page that had a map of the world printed on it. He tore the page into many pieces, like a jigsaw puzzle, and told his daughter to go into the other room and put it back together. At last, he thought, peace and quiet. Almost instantly it seemed the little girl reappeared yelling, “I did it, I put it together like you said.” The father was stunned. His daughter wasn’t even old enough to have studied any geography in school. He asked her how she could have possibly put the map together so quickly. The little girl happily replied, “Oh Daddy, on the back of the map was a picture of Jesus. I just turned the pieces over, and when I got Jesus in His place the world came out all right.” When we’re hurting – and I imagine the little girl was hurting from rejection when she left the room – if we’ll just make sure that Jesus is in His rightful place, the rest of our world will come out OK. That little girl displayed a “Jesus attitude.” That’s what we need – a Jesus attitude to keep Him in the right place in our lives.

We know that God sent His only son – Jesus – to earth as a human being to live just like the rest of us. “The Word became flesh and made His dwelling among us” (John 1:14). Jesus ate and slept just like we do. He was tempted in every way that we are tempted. And He suffered pain – both emotional and physical – just like we do.

How did Jesus react to being a human being? In many ways – just like we do. In the 11th chapter of the Gospel of John we find the story of when Lazarus, a close friend of Jesus, died. Let’s pick up the story beginning with the 32nd verse – “When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw Him, she fell at his feet and said, ‘Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died.’ When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, He was deeply moved in spirit and troubled” (John 11:32-33). He was deeply moved and troubled by the sorrow. The King James Version describes it as “He groaned in the spirit.” Obviously, Christ was deeply, emotionally pained. And how did He react? Much like we do, Verse 35 simply records, “Jesus wept." Jesus felt emotional pain.

Let’s consider another occasion when Jesus was hurting emotionally. On what we now call Palm Sunday, Jesus made a triumphal entry into Jerusalem. His popularity was at its zenith. The crowds were cheering. What happened? We read in the account by Luke, “As He approached Jerusalem and saw the city, He wept over it” (Luke 19:41). It wasn’t tears of happiness that Jesus shed, because as He peered out over that great city He prophesied, “The days will come upon you when your enemies will build an embankment against you and encircle you and hem you in on every side. They will dash you to the ground, you and the children within your walls. They will not leave one stone on another because he did not recognize the time of God’s coming to you” (Luke 19:43-44). Jesus foresaw the forthcoming complete, utter and horrible destruction of Jerusalem. It pained Him in His heart. Jesus cried out of compassion for what would happen to the people of Jerusalem. He cried because despite the gala reception awaiting Him and the waving of palm branches, He knew His message had been largely rejected.

Contemplating the destruction of Jerusalem, the “Liberty Bible Commentary” observes, “What was true of this city will also be true of each individual who rejects Christ. Jesus cared for them and He cares for men today.” That is so very true. Jesus cried for a lost city. Jesus still cries for lost sinners today.

Jesus in His lifetime felt much emotional pain. There were times when the pain was so great that He cried. But we are more aware of the unspeakable physical pain Jesus suffered on the day that He was crucified. He was beaten, flogged and scourged, slapped and struck over and over in the face. Spit upon and cursed. Repeatedly hit on the head by a large stick or staff. A cruel crown of thorns was viciously forced down on His head. And then, after He was driven through the streets of Jerusalem, He was nailed, not tied, but nailed to a cross and raised in torment to die. Jesus felt pain that day – intense, searing, dreadful physical anguish. But the greatest pain He experienced, the worst pain of all, was the pain in His heart for the sins of the world – for your sins and mine – that were crucified with Him that day at Calvary.

Jesus has suffered enough. I think we all agree with that statement. Do we, by our actions today, cause Him further pain? I’m afraid we too often do. Jesus hurts when His children are hurting. He hurts when we hurt someone else. We need to stop the pain. We need to stop hurting ourselves and others. Love your neighbor as yourself. Spread happiness, not pain, with your words and with your actions. Live with a Jesus attitude. Put Jesus in the right place and your world will be OK.

Lord, we come to You.  Help us to stop hurting ourselves and others.  Give us a "Jesus attitude" that we may be filled with Your love.  In Jesus Name.  Amen.

How Much Did Jesus Hurt” is from “Sermons for Seniors,” by George Boose. Used with permission of the author. The audio is by Pastor Ron Beckham.

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